In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with author Kathy Labriola, who has written 4 books on polyamory, including a life-changer for Vee: The Jealousy Workbook. What inspired The Jealousy Workbook? (3:18)Jealousy in ethical non-monogamy vs. monogamy. (7:05)Core beliefs and how they affect us in relationships. (8:32)"Signifiers" which instill confidence in partners. (11:37)Where does jealousy stem from? (14:07)Jealousy vs envy: defining and differentiating them. (17:17)Unpacking the emotions integral to jealousy. (21:33)Practical strategies to manage jealousy in the moment. (30:24)Figuring out the root cause of jealousy: the relationship, you, or a little bit of both? (44:39)Doing the internal work to overcome jealousy: understanding your attachment style and how it affects your level of jealousy in different relationships. (49:06)Conversations to have with your partner. (55:10)Phobia vs engineering methods to mitigate jealousy. (1:01:27)How to support a partner who is feeling jealous. (1:06:20)Final "nuggets of wisdom". (1:13:43)Find Kathy:Kathylabriola.comWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

This week, Elle and Vee bring back Lolo and B from Episode 081: Long Distance ENM and Creating Sexy Spaces, and Lola Jean from Episode 074: Fetish Wrestling, Choking and Squirting Misconceptions to play WHOREible Life, a card game all about breaking down barriers and getting naughty AND deep!Have You Ever: Been fucked with a strap on dildo? Favorite dildos, and what makes strap on sex good. (3:05)Have You Ever: Paid for sex? What is the appeal behind role playing as an escort? (15:18)Would you Rather: Use a ball gag or receive a rim job? (21:30)Pubic Hair do’s and don’ts! (22:59)Would you Rather: Be the focus of a gang bang with 4 or more or be in an orgy with 8 or more people? (29:44)Different types of gang bangs? (32:14)The Wheel of Consent. (34:22)Would you rather: Give impact play with a flogger, or give or receive bite marks? (36:54)What is possessive touch?  How to feel desired without messing with labels and power sub/dom dynamics. (38:33)What is primal play? (41:02)Would you Rather: Go to a daytime orgy aka ‘dorgy’ or masturbate together next to your partner? (43:32)Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcomwww.lolajean.comWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Elle and Vee have Summer back for an encore episode after she shared her experiences as a trained submissive under two doms in Episode 088: Inside the Mind of a Sub.  This time, she discusses her experiences and the lessons she's learned from being a unicorn for an array of couples with lots of different dynamics, and the girls put in their two cents from their own experiences.How do you become a unicorn in the ethically non monogamous lifestyle?  (1:46)Navigating couples’ dynamics as a unicorn and establishing your boundaries. Why you should keep texting in the group chat. (9:12)Deferring to the wife/girlfriend, and holding their feelings in high regard. Feeling thankful for being invited in. (16:07)As a husband/wife or girlfriend/boyfriend: the benefits of playing separately as a unicorn. (22:20)Playing with a couple when you’re more attracted to one person than the other. (27:01)BDSM vs ENM: rough sex vs vanilla sex. (32:30)Questions to ask as the couple, and as the unicorn, before playing. (34:23)Best threesome positions. (42:50)Meeting couples on apps. Overcoming past experiences and being a couples’ first. (46:42)Listener question: tips to stay safe when meeting new people as a single unicorn. (49:59)What does this lifestyle (ethical non monogamy) bring to your life in the absence of having your own primary partner? (1:00:26)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this conversation, Elle and Vee chat with Summer (FetLife:  DaddysPrettyToy ) about her journey through a BDSM Dom/Sub relationship. She shares her experiences as a trained submissive, highlighting the positive aspects of her BDSM journey and the transformative power of a healthy Dom/Sub dynamic. Listen in for a detailed play-by-play of her scenes, insights into her daily tasks, and the reasons and methods behind her punishments.How Fifty Shades of Grey and Playful Wrestling with Her Boyfriend Inspired Summer to Explore BDSM: She discusses how she found her first Dom and what motivated her to get into this lifestyle. (1:04)Her First Dom/Sub Relationship: The Agreement and Lessons Beyond. (8:40) A Day in the Life of a D/s Relationship: Sessions and Communication: Details of a typical day in her Dom/Sub relationship, including the dynamics of their sessions and the importance of clear communication. (11:43)A Day in the Life of a Trained Sub: 8-10 Hour Sessions and Rules (13:12) A Sexy Wax Play Scene: Building Trust, Aftercare, and Debriefing: Summer describes a wax play scene, the questions that were asked to build trust, why the scene was suddenly stopped, and the aftercare and debriefing discussion. (15:52)Characteristics of a Good Dom and How It Can Be a Gift to a Sub. (19:09)The Misuse of the Term 'Dom'. (20:17)Shibari Rope Scene Play by Play: Summer compares the differences between her two Doms, the sexual skills she learned, and details a scene involving being frog-tied with shibari rope and using a TENS unit. (22:49)Being a Good Dom Means being a Good Sub: Summer explains where her two dominants learned their skills. Exploring how BDSM practices push personal limits and how these experiences can translate into real-world scenarios. (31:00) Punishments as a Sub: What Happens When You’re a Brat; A look at the various types of punishments a submissive might encounter, whether they enjoy them or not, and what happened when Summer was a "brat." (35:53)People-Pleasing, Struggling to Say No, and Asking for Permission to See Other Men (40:21)Ending a Sub/Dom Relationship for a Vanilla Relationship (44:20) Finding the Right Dom for You: A play-by-play of how Summer met her Dom on FetLife, along with tips and questions you can use to find the right Dom for yourself. (46:20) Insights into how her Dom helped with her personal wellness and growth. (49:15)Reflecting on whether it's possible for Summer to pursue a monogamous relationship after such deep and intimate Dom/Sub experiences. (51:00)Be intentional with your desires and sexual awakening. Tips to Be Safe when exploring BDSM. (54:00)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee dive deep with School of Intimacy founder, intimacy coach, and author of No More Faking It, Magda Kay.  This episode is FULL of "nuggets", touching on everything from tantra to energy centers to how to up the intimacy in your relationship to why it might be better to practice tantra with someone other than your primary partner. You don't want to miss this one!Why tantra and intimacy coaching?Becoming orgasmic: orgasming with yourself and unlocking the ability to orgasm with others.The pussy as an energy hub: taking on sexual partners’ trauma. What is a full body orgasm, and how do we know if we’ve had one?Orgasmic states and self mastery through tantra.Releasing through tantric sex, and who should you practice with? Crying during sex, and holding space for your partner’s release.How to find the right practitioner for a yoni or lingum massage. Listener Question: “How can I get my wife’s spark back in the bedroom?” Listener Question: “What’s a quick guide on tantric breathing?”Intimacy Block: The ability to let go with people you don’t know or care about as much. Looking at sex as something more than just the physical experience. School of Intimacy: providing the foundation for better sex, relationship and tantric education.Can you practice tantra with the same sex, when traditionally it's all about the yin and yang of the masculine and feminine energies? Find Magda: Website: www.magdakay.comInstagram: @magdakayofficialYoutube: @magdakayWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up and discuss their takeaways from two sex party events their friend group (the Joy Fam) threw, including recapping sexy stories, "a-ha" moments and reflections. Implementing Lessons Learned: change your environment and have vacation sex! (0:33)House of Love club night takeaways: Vee’s birthday celebration, and Elle’s first big night out since having a baby! Getting over new mom nervousness with costumes: How themes get you into the sexy mood - especially animal theme :) (3:56)How to feel confident while carrying baby weight: MILK PLAY! Break the touch barrier by using breast milk play as an ice breaker? (5:56)Sexy Story with The Greek: what makes a good single male in the lifestyle? Wolf energy. (11:11)Feeling overwhelmed at a sex party when you’re the guest of honor, taking a backseat but staying involved. (18:27)Joyunion: sex friends getting together with babies - it’s different but the same! (20:46)TIP: how to get sexual if you’re not sure if you’re horny. Getting turned on by hearing another woman orgasming. (23:27)Sexy story: Pushing past your own limits. Elle orgasms twice when she thinks she can only do it once. (27:13)CREAM PIE STORY: Trying to do TVP (triple vaginal penetration), DVP (double vaginal penetration) and cream pies. (29:33)TIP: take 5 minutes away from the overstimulation of the party to let your body relax and your dick to get hard. (31:46)TAKEAWAY: The problem with peeing in the middle of the orgy. (34:26)TAKEAWAY: The best orgy snack, and issues with dry mouth. (37:00)Being a mom in an orgy and getting distracted during play.  How to re-center yourself and focus on your body and sensations. (39:36)Listener question: Our book recommendations for jealousy! (43:34)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, the girls chat with Mommy (Episode 018: Female Friendships in ENM) and play WHOREible Life, their favorite game to break down barriers and get naughty AND deep! They touch on everything from being called Mommy during sex, to stretching fetishes and putting food in vaginas, to bisexuality and all-female orgies!Growth: seizing the moment rather than getting in your head and not taking advantage of sexy opportunities. (1:59)-Would you rather role play as a teacher or be called mommy during sex? (7:52)-Would you rather have peanut butter licked off your genitals or be peed on? (12:35)Whats Up Down There? The weird things people put in their vaginas, and what’s the weirdest thing you’ve had in your vagina or put into a vagina? (14:51)Pee Play: Peeing on people, first Tinder dates with pee fetishists, Baptism by pee. When you’re new to the lifestyle and go on a date with someone who’s super kinky. (19:15)Watersports and Vee pushing her boundaries by sitting in pee in bathtubs and in resort pools. (22:50)-Would you rather have a same sex threesome or give another bruises from impact play? (26:08)All girl play and bisexuality on a spectrum. Sometimes you crave female energy, and sometimes you crave a dick! (30:00)Comparing Elle and Mommy’s favorite strap ons: Oxyd Creations and Strap-On-Me. (34:09)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Vee and Elle catch up on Vee’s solo trip to Thailand and Vietnam. Vee has some major sexual takeaways and "aha moments" going on vacation with no sex in sight... until the last day of her trip when she met Mr. Bangkok. Hear her play by play and so much more, including:Solo Travel: not knowing when you’re going to have sex next, and where are all the sex clubs in Thailand?! (1:57)Hot Hookup: Vee has a sexy one night stand in Bangkok after 8 hours of foreplay in the back of a bus! The sexiness of meeting in a non-sexual environment. (6:54)NIPPLE PLAY: Vee almost has a nipple orgasm. Techniques of nipple play. The beauty of having an experience with someone who can’t get enough of you no matter what you look or smell like. (15:35)ANAL PLAY: enthusiasm and ravenousness. (23:38)Hooking up with Monogamous, Macho Men: how to approach the “open relationship” conversation with a vanilla hookup. Unlearning ingrained societal norms. Toys in the bedroom. (26:01)Relaxation plus vacation equals maximum horniness! (30:49)Listener Questions, Answered!How to Find Your Lifestyle Community (especially when you live in less progressive areas): Kasidie, Feeld, SDC, SLS, Fetlife, hotel takeovers, Luxx Parties, etc. and the benefits of each option. (33:44)Dipping Your Toes Into Sex Parties and Kink for the First Time: go to meetups and mixers rather than the full blown sex parties. Go early to sex parties for the ice breaker games and making connections while it’s less crowded! (42:12)Men’s Body Hair: what’s popular these days, and what’s appropriate? If you take nothing else away from this:  Shave your balls and asshole. (48:58)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, the girls bring back Brandi from Episode 047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix. Together they play WHOREible Life by trying to guess whether or not each player has done the act mentioned on the card. This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!Sex Positions While Pregnant: which positions create a boy and which create a girl, and why laying on your back doesn’t work while pregnant. (2:15)Card 1: Had sex before the age of 15? Losing your virginity. (9:41)What is considered “full on sex” or “fourth base” with a female? (15:29)Formative sexual oral experiences as precursors to the lifestyle. (18:07)Card 2: Used a fleshlight. What is a fleshlight? Other toy options for penis owners. (23:01)Card 3: Own 3 or more dildos. Sex toy closets and favorite sex toys. (30:41)Dildos vs. vibrators, and when and why would you use each? Frozen glass dildo to relieve pussy pain. (33:57)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

There are plenty of podcasts that talk about do’s and dont’s at a sex parties. This episode goes deeper.The girls share their "aha" moments, discuss common mistakes made by veterans in the lifestyle, and storytell through it all with real-life examples.Joining Elle and Vee chat in this discussion is returning guest Jess from  Episode 58: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play and  Episode 37: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and SpankingEpisode BreakdownIntro and The Need for this Discussion from the More Experienced Perspective on Sex Parties. (00:35)DON’T yuck someone else's yum. Be open minded for to other’s desires and kinks. "What about that turns you on?" (04:51)Tips for Making More Connections at Parties. (09:33)DO Attend Sex Parties with other friends: How many is too many? What’s the right amount of people to ensure fun while still branching away to meet new people? (11:01)DON’T Set Expectations, rather, DO Set Personal Goals.  (13:44)DO Create an Immersive Environment by Putting in Effort in Dressing Up for the Theme. (16:31)DO Be Sexually Forward with Clear Communication and Honesty  (20:08)DON’T Take Anything Personally, and how not to lead People On. (26:45)DO Ask “What Are Your Intentions For The Night?” To Uncover Compatibility. (30:43)DON’T Assume It’s Free for All: Interactions Between Other People Does Not Mean It Also Applies To You. (32:24)DO Use Your Words and Tell Others When You Feel Uncomfortable, otherwise, you’re a part of the problem. (37:52)DO Read the Room for Energy and Vibe, DON’T Talk During the Orgy. (43:32)DO Pack Your Slutbag, Organization Tips, Bringing Your Own Sex Toys, Toy Condoms. (46:42)DON’T get too fucked up: Substances and Moderation.  (48:54)DON’T STINK! Preparation and Hygiene. (52:45)DO Flirt Early, Arrive Early. (55:59)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this conversation, Elle and Vee chat with couple B and Lolo to discuss their long-distance relationship and how they practice non monogamy. They share how they navigate being apart and how they keep their relationship hot and exciting. The conversation touches on topics such as playing separately, sharing sexy content, phone and video sex, the importance of creating the right atmosphere for sexual experiences, and their successful approach to meeting new people and introducing 'vanillas' into the lifestyle._________________________ Episode Breakdown:Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship requires effort and communication, and the story of how Lolo and B met. (01:27)How they explored the non monogamous lifestyle together, B had no experience and Lolo tried with her ex-husband. (7:19)How they practice non monogamy in their long distance relationship.  (15:17)How to keep it hot while being long distance: sexy content and FaceTime sex. (18:20)Orgasms: Frustration losing an orgasm, breathing through the orgasms or holding your breath. (22:10)Creating a sexy environment in temporary spaces like hotels or airbnbs: the role of low lighting and color temperature with amber-hued incandescent light bulbs, led light strips. (28:40)Preventing messes with waterproof fitted sheets, furniture placement and other essentials.  (34:49)Music recommendations: Create a party-like atmosphere without being distracting is ideal for setting the mood. (38:53)Hedonism Jamaica Story Share: Naked, covered in squirt juice and room temperature to get naked plus how B and LoLo met Elle. (41:50)Enthusiastic consent and how it's importance in meeting new people, the power of open and honest communication. (46:48)Successful Sport Fishing: How they pick up 'Vanillas’ (non monogamous people) for threesomes or foursomes, while out at a bar. Creating a safe space for exploration.  (51:56) Their foundation for a successful journey their relationship, through ENM, and being long distance: No Secrets, No Lies: Everything Else is a Conversation. (1:02:18)Navigating jealousy and conflict requires self-reflection, non reactivity in the moment and effective communication. (1:04:22)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two guests to play WHOREible Life (@wlthegame), the game of have you ever all things sex and kink!The first guest is Kate Maxx from (from Episode 73: Owning and Loving What You Do with Kate Maxx featuring Humiliatrix Work, Stripping, and OnlyFans Content Creation Our second guest is Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) from Episode 75: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss PlayBridget is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia) and host of Sexploration with Bridget Scholes Podcast.With both guests, we play the game WHOREible Life by choosing two cards and asking which Would you rather….This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!WL cards: Would you rather orgasm from spanking or other impact play or make someone squirt (1:11)WL cards: Would you rather roleplay as puppy or cat OR be bound and restricted as a rope bunny (5:11)Underwater shibari with Markus Leather (5:55) WL cards: Wear a spreader bar OR have someone ride your face (11:06)Ways to insert yourself into an orgy (14:32)All girl orgy, how female play changes when men are not watching, the skirt club a space for bi-curious and bisexual women (16:38)WL cards: Practice tantric sex OR receive foot worship, foot licking or toe sucking (21:50)Tantric sex and how to do energetic breathing alone or with your partner to increase sexual energy (23:05)WL cards: be fucked by someone else with a strap on OR slap someone in the face with an open hand (27:41)Using glass dildos from temperature to the pressure and hardness to massaging to penetration (32:20)WL cards: Have sex on a beach or post a personal porn video for public viewing (35:21)Giving handjobs (37:10)Sex on a beach (39:56)Chili, pepper spray and jalapeños sex mishaps (42:12)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle catches up with Vee on everything she's been up to over the past few months while she's been gone on maternity leave. Vee shares her takeaways from various sex parties and the personal challenges she's been working through that have made getting sexual more challenging than usual. Overthinking and using labels as a crutch: demisexuality. (1:57)Trying to get sexy when you have a lot of stress in your life. (10:39)Sex party takeaways: Squirting in public. Balancing and communicating with your partner, and using orgasms as stress relief. (13:16)Don’t take anything personally: you never know what’s going on for someone in their own head and life. (20:19)Likening sex parties to restaurants. If you’re not in the mood to participate, how can you leave the night feeling fulfilled and successful? (23:45)Thinking for two at a sex party: how can you meet in the middle as a couple so that you’re both satisfied? Being a wingwoman/wingman for your partner so that you’re both fulfilled by the experience. (28:46)Turning the conversation sexual: Getting turned on by talking about fantasies. (32:06)Rooftop sex story: being attracted to androgyny. Getting out of your head and acting on instincts. (36:00)The energetic difference when someone is “thirsty” vs when there’s no expectations. A subtle expectation for sex when you’re at a sex party. (39:37)Oversaturation with sex parties leading to numbness. (41:41)How to work through the feelings when the dynamics change in your polycule. When solo female unicorns leave the lifestyle when they find a monogamous partner. (45:31)Setting intentions for upcoming events. (57:20)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Elle had her baby! In this episode, she shares all the intimate details about how she and her husband, M, used natural sexual tactics to induce labor, and how they got back to being sexual after six weeks of healing. How to induce labor with sex: nipple play, penetrative sex, nipple clamps, orgasms and Braxton Hicks. (3:07)What is labor pain like? Comparing contractions to DVP, speculum spreading, fisting, anal discomfort: breathing through discomfort, and thinking of words as spells. (11:04)Post-baby vagina: "the husband stitch", and does it look different? Is it loose? (17:31)Postpartum sex: how long does it take to get back to sex after having a baby? Getting over the fear of having an orgasm. How to get comfortable with penetration again. The first orgasm after six weeks of vaginal healing. (20:43)Scheduling sex when you have a newborn. (28:09)Breast milk play: Breastfeeding and nipple play. Tasting breast milk and squirting it during blow jobs. (28:41)Being in the open lifestyle and parenthood: confidence issues with postpartum body. Diving back into sex parties and ENM (ethical non-monogamy) after having a child. (35:40)Maintaining your sex life with a baby around. How having a short timeline can be hot! (38:34)Major takeaways from giving birth and getting back to sex: Prioritizing sex to reignite sexuality in your relationship postpartum. Falling in love with your partner again. (42:01)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee, who is also the co-founder of Temple in Chicago, a shibari and aerial performer, and the partner of previous repeat guest Physics (Episode 45: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Episode 46: BDSM, DDLG and Shibari). In this wide-ranging conversation, the four of them touch on everything from DDLG dynamics to overcoming vulva shame through yoni gazing.Temple: The feminine energy vs the masculine energy, creating a space for women to feel vulnerable enough to have those transformational experiences. Events at Temple from yoni gazing to massage to Littles Parties. (1:26)Overcoming vulnerabilities about our vulvas by yoni gazing. Admiring, acknowledging and affirming your vulva. Porn star pussy vs real life.  Uneven labia. (11:09)Professional cuddling: platonic touch therapy.  The importance of touch. What does a cuddling session entail? How can a professional cuddler maintain safety? (21:08)Therapeutic Kink as a mode of healing and helping others work through trauma through professional domming. Do all clients have something to work through? (31:08)DDLG (Daddy Dom Little Girl) Dynamics: how being a “little” allows Bee to be in her dominant energy during the day. (39:11)Switchy Domme: Power dynamics and differentiating between personal pleasure practices and experiences vs. work experiences. (43:16)Shibari: what does it do for the people practicing it? Showmanship with suspension combined with aerial skills and squirting. How to prep for squirting: regular hydration! (46:09)Upside down squirting: wow factors and showmanship in erotic shibari performance. (50:47)Links:Find Bee on Fetlife: LilHoneyBeeBuzzFind Physics on Fetlife: PhysicsWebsites: CuddlesByBee.comThe TempleWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest Slutlana (from Episode 31: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband) and Alexa Andre (from Episode 71: Relaxing While Receiving Oral, One Penis Policy, and Biphobia) to play the game Whoreible Life.This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! There are many many ways to play, so in this episode they play it two ways: “Would You Rather” and “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank You” - 1 Done it — share the story!2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.Have you ever had sex in your parents’ bed?  How “the talk” and your parents’ approach to sex can affect your early relationship with sexuality. (3:13)Different approaches to talking about sex with your kids. (8:48) Have you ever role played in a rape fantasy or “Consensual Non Consent” (CNC) scene?  Describing examples of CNC scenes, role playing, safe words and what needs to be discussed and agreed beforehand. (13:30)Lowering our standards while dating during the Covid pandemic and putting ourselves in potentially unsafe situations. (22:52)Catharsis in acting out fears through sexual fantasies like rape scenes and consensual non-consent. (30:34)Would you rather use a double ended dildo or make a girl squirt?  Being surprised by a squirter. Glass vs silicone double ended dildos, and the first time orgasming with a double ended dildo - what position works best. (38:27)Double ended dildo vs. Feeldo. (42:50)Would you rather practice tantric sex or role play as submissive? Masturbating and focusing on the breath; breath orgasms without physical touch. (45:40)Workout orgasms and Elle’s experience orgasming with an ab roller. (48:02)Would you rather watch VR porn or be dominated to lose the right to orgasm? Orgasm denial, being a brat, and Reddit porn communities. (50:45)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Elle and Vee chat with Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) who is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia).Being sexually attracted to others while married. (2:03)Healthy sex life in marriage and now divorced. (8:14)Using the lifestyle app Feeld to meet partners and always saying yes. (11:43)Sex club tips and lessons learned. (14:31)Going to sex clubs alone vs with a partner. (18:28)ENM nuggets: fostering communication, honesty and self reflection. (23:35)If a previously discussed boundary feels right in the moment, should you push it? (26:40)Common issues brought up in couples relationship therapy: reigniting desire in a longterm relationship, and the misconception of mismatched libidos. (28:13)How do partners with mismatched libidos navigate a conversation to get on the same page? (31:29)Pleasure languages, spontaneous vs responsive desire... or in other words, an Ellle vs a Vee. (34:07)Books that have helped on a personal sexual level and journey into non monogamy: Polysecure, Come As You Are, Mating in Captivity and other self help books. (36:46)Seducing yourself: Madame Dahlia dildo company, connected pleasure vs vibrator play. (40:45)Ebbs and flows of sex and how to get out of your head. (45:04)How to foster desire: sensual and simple pleasures. (48:58)Using social media to look at erotic art. (53:50)How male orgasms differ physiologically from female orgasms. (57:12)Kink: turned on by pee play / piss play. (59:49)Letting go of the messiness of sex, and dissociation from masturbation. (1:02:18)Website: bridgetscholessexology.com.auWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) about her work as a sex educator.  She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her website from choking to masturbation to play fighting, and more. (1:18)How did Lola Jean get to where she is as a sex educator, squirting icon and fetish wrestler? (6:58)ENM (Ethical Non Monogamy): differentiating non-monogamy, just “being single”, and situationships. Figuring out what you want by dating all types of couples and relationship dynamics. Sex and love addicts anonymous (SLAA). Attachment styles. (9:27)Squirting: how does it feel to be known as a squirter? Fetishizing and red flags.  What should we know about squirting? When trying to do it, figure out WHY you’re trying to do it. Who is it for? (17:30)Broad vs specific response squirting. (22:04)Why squirting actually sucks. (25:24)Fetish Wrestling: Different types of choking (Fantasy Choke, Blood Choke, Air Choke). (29:51)What does a fetish wrestling session look like? Power dynamics? Vetting process? Types of fetish wrestling sessions: fantasy, semi-competitive, full competitive, lift and carry.  (35:53)What is the psychology behind fetish wrestling? What's in it for both the provider and the client? (41:56)Sex workers' self care after sessions. (44:30)Where to find Lola Jean:Website: lolajean.comSeven Days of DominationWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Kate Maxx, who is a "Jill of all trades": a former Naked News anchor, model, Young Swingers Week emcee (among other events), stripper, Only Fans content creator, and dominatrix specializing in humiliation.  They go deep on all these topics. Additionally, they cover the importance of separating your work and personal life as a sex worker, and the shifts in perspective when you're a young widow.Website: www.katemaxx.comInstagram: kate_maxx_Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest M (from Episode 5: Compersion, Episode 12: DP,  Episode 34: How to Squirt) and Daniel D'Ottavio (@dottavio77) from Episode 64: SNCTM to play the game WHOREible Life together! This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you. 1 Done it — share the story!2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.Crawled on a leash held by another. What might motivate someone to engage in age play? Comparing and contrasting using a leash for a sub/dom scene, role playing as an animal, or role playing as a baby. (3:16)Used a glory hole. How to make your own! The difference between a glory hole and milking table. (15:36)Received double penetration. M's first DP experience. (20:12)Sucked a cock with a Prince Albert Piercing. The negative aspects of giving head to someone with a genital piercing. (29:13)Had sex with someone who didn't speak the same language as you. How demisexuality interferes with this fantasy! (31:54)Worn a collar in public. (36:00)Worn or played with a spreader bar. Using BDSM gear with multiple partners. (37:46)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!