Girls Gone Deep

Elle and Vee

Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com

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Episode 075: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss Play
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Episode 075: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss Play
Elle and Vee chat with Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) who is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia).Being sexually attracted to others while married. (2:03)Healthy sex life in marriage and now divorced. (8:14)Using the lifestyle app Feeld to meet partners and always saying yes. (11:43)Sex club tips and lessons learned. (14:31)Going to sex clubs alone vs with a partner. (18:28)ENM nuggets: fostering communication, honesty and self reflection. (23:35)If a previously discussed boundary feels right in the moment, should you push it? (26:40)Common issues brought up in couples relationship therapy: reigniting desire in a longterm relationship, and the misconception of mismatched libidos. (28:13)How do partners with mismatched libidos navigate a conversation to get on the same page? (31:29)Pleasure languages, spontaneous vs responsive desire... or in other words, an Ellle vs a Vee. (34:07)Books that have helped on a personal sexual level and journey into non monogamy: Polysecure, Come As You Are, Mating in Captivity and other self help books. (36:46)Seducing yourself: Madame Dahlia dildo company, connected pleasure vs vibrator play. (40:45)Ebbs and flows of sex and how to get out of your head. (45:04)How to foster desire: sensual and simple pleasures. (48:58)Using social media to look at erotic art. (53:50)How male orgasms differ physiologically from female orgasms. (57:12)Kink: turned on by pee play / piss play. (59:49)Letting go of the messiness of sex, and dissociation from masturbation. (1:02:18)Website: bridgetscholessexology.com.auWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
074: Sex Educator and Pro Domme Lola Jean on Fetish Wrestling, Choking Methods and Squirting Misconceptions (aka Why Squirting Sucks)
06-06-2024
074: Sex Educator and Pro Domme Lola Jean on Fetish Wrestling, Choking Methods and Squirting Misconceptions (aka Why Squirting Sucks)
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) about her work as a sex educator.  She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her website from choking to masturbation to play fighting, and more. (1:18)How did Lola Jean get to where she is as a sex educator, squirting icon and fetish wrestler? (6:58)ENM (Ethical Non Monogamy): differentiating non-monogamy, just “being single”, and situationships. Figuring out what you want by dating all types of couples and relationship dynamics. Sex and love addicts anonymous (SLAA). Attachment styles. (9:27)Squirting: how does it feel to be known as a squirter? Fetishizing and red flags.  What should we know about squirting? When trying to do it, figure out WHY you’re trying to do it. Who is it for? (17:30)Broad vs specific response squirting. (22:04)Why squirting actually sucks. (25:24)Fetish Wrestling: Different types of choking (Fantasy Choke, Blood Choke, Air Choke). (29:51)What does a fetish wrestling session look like? Power dynamics? Vetting process? Types of fetish wrestling sessions: fantasy, semi-competitive, full competitive, lift and carry.  (35:53)What is the psychology behind fetish wrestling? What's in it for both the provider and the client? (41:56)Sex workers' self care after sessions. (44:30)Where to find Lola Jean:Website: lolajean.comSeven Days of DominationWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
072: Guys Gone Deep on Age Play, Spreader Bars, Collaring, Prince Albert Piercings and Glory Holes with Daniel D'Ottavio and M
23-05-2024
072: Guys Gone Deep on Age Play, Spreader Bars, Collaring, Prince Albert Piercings and Glory Holes with Daniel D'Ottavio and M
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest M (from Episode 5: Compersion, Episode 12: DP,  Episode 34: How to Squirt) and Daniel D'Ottavio (@dottavio77) from Episode 64: SNCTM to play the game WHOREible Life together! This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you. 1 Done it — share the story!2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.Crawled on a leash held by another. What might motivate someone to engage in age play? Comparing and contrasting using a leash for a sub/dom scene, role playing as an animal, or role playing as a baby. (3:16)Used a glory hole. How to make your own! The difference between a glory hole and milking table. (15:36)Received double penetration. M's first DP experience. (20:12)Sucked a cock with a Prince Albert Piercing. The negative aspects of giving head to someone with a genital piercing. (29:13)Had sex with someone who didn't speak the same language as you. How demisexuality interferes with this fantasy! (31:54)Worn a collar in public. (36:00)Worn or played with a spreader bar. Using BDSM gear with multiple partners. (37:46)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
071: Sexologist Alexa Andre on The Secret to Relaxing While Receiving Oral, “One Penis Policy”, Biphobia and How to Navigate When One Partner is Less Experienced in Ethical Non Monogamy
16-05-2024
071: Sexologist Alexa Andre on The Secret to Relaxing While Receiving Oral, “One Penis Policy”, Biphobia and How to Navigate When One Partner is Less Experienced in Ethical Non Monogamy
This week, Vee and Elle discuss a range of topics with sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), a sex therapist and host of the podcast In Bed with Alexa. They cover everything from new couples exploring ethical non-monogamy, to being able to relax into receiving oral (especially as a vulva owner), to navigating bisexuality, and so much more, including:What advice do you have for a couple in which one partner has more experience than the other in non-monogamy?  How can you deal when you’re unsure whether it will work with someone who has no experience with being open? (4:51)Vulva owners reciving oral: tasting yourself so you’re not worried about how you taste or smell, and the benefit of having a partner who loves natural body odors. (17:07)Alexa’s secret to relaxing when receiving oral: setting time boundaries! How long do you think it actually takes you to orgasm? Getting over guilt for taking “too long” to orgasm while receiving. (22:49)Bisexuality and biphobia.  How does biphobia show up in non-monogamous spaces? What is “one penis policy”, and how a male partner dictating that their female partner can be with other women but not other men is problematic. The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. (30:11) The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. Normalizing speaking about bisexuality, especially in men. Watching your male partner give head and deep throating. (34:29)  Alexa’s specialties, and the full range of volume in sex - letting go vocally when coming vs holding your breath and being totally silent. (39:20)  Is it weird to announce it when you orgasm? (41:44)  “Challenge your beliefs and question everything.” What do YOU actually want? The path to a greater sex life. (43:42) Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
069: Oral Part 1: Our Favorite Techniques for Giving Head and Eating Out, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics
02-05-2024
069: Oral Part 1: Our Favorite Techniques for Giving Head and Eating Out, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics
It's the oral extravaganza! Vee and Elle chat about all things oral: blow jobs, eating out and all the good and bad along with it. Why do you deep throat? (1:53)Enthusiasm - our number one tip! The importance of moaning to show enthusiasm when receiving. (6:37)Techniques for giving head: the corkscrew method; communication; ball sucking and licking. (9:49)Getting comfortable! The best positions to give head and go down on someone. (15:08)Techniques for licking pussy (cunnilingus, going down on someone, etc): make out with the clit; build gradual pressure. (19:10)Eating out: flicking vs sucking the clit; fingering in conjunction with clit play; in and out vs come hither. (22:34)Tongue fucking. (25:44)How do you stop someone if you don’t like what they’re doing? How to be comfortable sitting on someone’s face, and why you might not want really good head in a play situation. (27:21)Eye contact during oral: yay or nay? (36:03)What should we stop doing? What makes oral bad? Teeth, smell and bad hygiene, and the importance of tasting your own cum. (40:24)How to give head (fellatio, blow jobs) to uncircumcised dicks. What do you do with the foreskin? (45:09)Power dynamics of oral sex: who’s in charge? Face fucking. (47:38)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
068: Sensation Play with Sarah Eve: TENS and Electroplay, “Pervertables”, and Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body
25-04-2024
068: Sensation Play with Sarah Eve: TENS and Electroplay, “Pervertables”, and Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Sarah Eve about sensation play, including everything from the tools to use, to what questions to ask before a session, to safety considerations (especially when using electroplay), and so much more. Sarah Eve is an educator and facilitated a mini workshop on sensation play at Daytime Playtime: a Sober Play Party, which Vee recapped in Episode 063. What is sensation play? How can we stimulate different senses to heighten a sexual experience? It’s not just touch - how to play with scent, sight, taste, and smell, too. (6:58)What’s in your bag of tools for sensation play? (12:58)Things to consider: intensity, pressure, speed, direction and location. (18:10)Setting and negotiating the scene to deliver a great experience: the right questions to ask before engaging in a sensory play scene. (20:50)TENS unit play and electro play - what to ask beforehand, insertables, using condoms and safety.  (23:47)What can you do when you don’t have tools at your disposal? Using your mouth: breath, spit, temperature, teeth. (30:17)Thoughts on numbing or intensifying creams? (39:00)How long is a good amount of time for a sensation play session? (44:09)Pain play and floggers. (47:52)What does sensation play do for couples? De-centering penetrative sex. (49:40)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
067: Overcoming Challenges and Exploring Dynamics in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Stag and Vixen, Playing Separately vs Together, and Alcohol's Effects
18-04-2024
067: Overcoming Challenges and Exploring Dynamics in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Stag and Vixen, Playing Separately vs Together, and Alcohol's Effects
In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifestyle resort a success.  Superslut and The Turk chat about how therapy helped set them up for success, while Josie and Evan share how Evan cutting out alcohol changed their relationship for the better. Additionally, they cover: What are some communication techniques to mitigate the effects of the free-flowing alcohol? Why keep doing it if it's so much work? ...And what are some hot experiences they've had along the way?First Hedo experience: a big challenge. Going through a polyamorous breakup. (3:55)Tools from both solo and couples therapy. People pleasing. No "taking one for the team".  (8:42) Safety Tool: No record-counting. Setting desires not goals. (12:30)Safety Tool: Move at the pace of the slowest person. Playing separately vs. playing together. (15:34)Safety Tool: limiting alcohol consumption to help manage emotions. (17:51)Safety Tool: Only argue for two minutes. Keep the mindset that you're a team. (19:01)Spicy story: being a couple's first ENM experience. Enthusiastic consent. (20:01)Spicy Story: Superslut's first double penetration (DP). (21:31)Stag and Vixen: what is it? Why a woman might not enjoy watching her partner with someone else. Finding your dynamic through trial and error. Why Hedonism is not the ideal place to figure out what works for you. (22:50)Drinking and the lifestyle: how drinking affects your ability to respect boundaries and agreements. Getting sober to save your relationship. How stopping drinking can enrich your experience with your partner. Getting used to being at an all-inclusive resort without alcohol. Discovering we are braver than we thought. What do you do with your hands? (28:29)Why swing? Dressing sexy for your partner. Vaginal hook harnesses. (35:49)Why be in the open lifestyle? Sense of community. "Hedo people are the best people." Icebreakers. (38:13)Major takeaway: don’t have a checklist. Release expectations. There’s always next time. (41:01)Squirting and exhibitionism. (43:20)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
066: Guys Gone Deep on Prostate Play, Squirt Juice Facials, Spit Play and Latex Fetish feat. Zachary Zane and The Builder
11-04-2024
066: Guys Gone Deep on Prostate Play, Squirt Juice Facials, Spit Play and Latex Fetish feat. Zachary Zane and The Builder
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two male guest for a GUYS GONE DEEP edition to play WHOREible Life the game.First up, Zachary Zane @zacharyzane_ :from Episode 057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life! Then, The Builder:from  Episode 012: Guys Gone Deep: The Builder and M on Double Penetration, Short Men, and Friendships in the Lifestyle and mentioned in multiple other episodes! Fucking yourself in the ass as a way to warm yourself up and clean yourself out before a play night. (3:20)Squirt juice facials with a side of hot sweaty squirty sex.  (9:24)Spitting on your partner and into their mouth. (16:01)For men, the balance of being forward yet also needing to read the room correctly. (19:45)Enthusiastic consent in straight play spaces versus opt-out consent in gay spaces. (22:42)Prostate play and how to have a prostate orgasm. (25:10)Leaking prostate juices and toys for prostate play: nJoy and anal hook discussed. (29:14) Airtight: the benefits of each position. (38:26)"Running a train". (44:19) Experiences meeting people on ENM or swinger apps. (50:15)Working through catfishing and making real connections on dating apps. (54:48) Where do you meet dates, and what do you do dates with a unicorn or another couple? (59:59)Full head mask during sex and latex fetish experience. (1:03:03)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
065: Hedonism Swing Breakers 2024: Intentions and Takeaways, featuring Squirting, Day Orgies, Speculum "Caving" and Slut Scouts
04-04-2024
065: Hedonism Swing Breakers 2024: Intentions and Takeaways, featuring Squirting, Day Orgies, Speculum "Caving" and Slut Scouts
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat before and after Vee goes to Hedonism Swing Breakers: an under-45 swinger event at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica.  It's a weeklong takeover of the resort, full of nudity, orgies, theme parties and debauchery! Vee articulates her intentions, and later they recap the week and their experiences of it - both there and from afar - and what their takeaways were!This conversation includes:Lingerie vs rave costumes at lifestyle theme parties. PLUS packing tips! (:45)Setting Sexual intentions: butt stuff, Nuru, daytime orgies! (14:13)HSB 2024 recap. (20:40)Sexual intentions fulfilled? Additional intentions during the week. (21:59)Day orgies recap aka DORGIES! Dorgy 1: Nuru and DP (double penetration). (23:00)Dorgy 2: Nuru and getting out of your head to squirt. (28:00)Slut Scouts: what it is, how to play, badges. (30:33)“Gardening” Badge: using gardening tools as sex toys because Elle is a freak ;) (33:01)Water Sports Badge: golden showers. (34:11)“Spelunking” aka “Caving” Badge: pussy spreading with speculums (medical play). (36:38)“Global Action” Badge: Eiffel Tower sex position, impact play spanking session, and shibari harness sex. Vee has an aha moment and becomes the initiator! (38:38)Making a girl squirt, strapping girl on girl with strap ons. (44:13)Major Takeaway: balancing friends and sex at HSB; Vee’s demisexuality confirmed! Building on relationships to have better sex. (48:32)Pro Tips for Hedo! Learn from the girls’ experience. (51:14)balancing friends satellite friends and new people. (57:12)Dealing with fomo: just like Burning Man, wherever you are is where you’re supposed to be. (59:35)For more on Hedonism including FAQs and tips and tricks, check out:014: HSB: Being Naked in Public, Prioritizing Your Partner, and Orgy Highlights015: Going Deep with Julia Lange: the Woman Behind Hedonism Swing BreakersWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
064: SNCTM with Daniel D’Ottavio: Erotic Performance Art, Exploration Through Anonymity, and the Deeper Meaning Behind Impact Play
28-03-2024
064: SNCTM with Daniel D’Ottavio: Erotic Performance Art, Exploration Through Anonymity, and the Deeper Meaning Behind Impact Play
In this week's episode, Elle and Vee chat about all things SNCTM, the private members club that the girls have always wanted a peek inside.  They cover the club, but also go super deep with their guest on the deeper meaning behind impact play, his love and adoration of his burlesque champion wife, and their artistic partnership.Daniel D’Ottavio: his role in SNCTM, and his origin story with his wife, Lou Lou D’vil, the creative director or SNCTM. (1:03)Monogamy and SNCTM: The choice to stay monogamous while working for a sex club, what your first sex club experience feels like, and learning about the consent culture. (5:27)Erotic storytelling: How telling stories through erotic arts lead Daniel and his wife to SNCTM, and how her creative direction helped create a femme-empowered, luscious environment. (9:41)What to expect at a SNCTM party: ambiance, service, clientele, privacy (including masks and NDA’s). (13:54)Accountability and communication: How have these experiences affected Daniel’s personal growth, and his relationship growth? (18:15)Types of performances at SNCTM: aerial, kink, and theatrical erotic artistry. (20:52)Kink workshops: Discovering kink and impact play, and evolving into an educator. (23:05)Catharsis and therapeutic benefits of impact play: The deeper meaning behind kinks and fetishes. (25:01)The importance of having spaces to explore sex, kink, fetish and fantasy. (31:36)How has SNCTM evolved since ownership changed in 2019? Consent rules, NDA’s, masks, one-strike policy, single women. (33:30)SNCTM: fever dreams and sexual fantasies, and the emphasis on having a female-empowered environment. (42:21)Nuggets from being part of the lifestyle community. (45:30)Websites:SNCTMCocoonInstagram: @dottavio77 @snctmsocietyWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
063: “Daytime Playtime” Sober Play Party: Penis Sound, Sensation Play, Cumming On Top, Apple Vision Pro Home Porn
21-03-2024
063: “Daytime Playtime” Sober Play Party: Penis Sound, Sensation Play, Cumming On Top, Apple Vision Pro Home Porn
Horny for Knowledge: Daytime Playtime Sober Play Party with Mini Workshops. (00:54)What is a daytime sober play party like? Analyzing the space and vibe: lighting, highlighting hit me up, attire, number of people. (4:54)What sobriety brings to a sex party. (7:21)Lola Jean: Spicing up the typical consent speech, including an interactive exercise. (9:31)Making eye contact at a sex party: it;s not necesssarily an invitation! (11:02) Embodiment, setting intentions, and setting boundaries workshop: giving permission to others with your actions, and how to have initial conversations with new people about boundaries and STI status. (13:47)Sarah Eve: sensation (sensory) play workshop, including tools, blindfolds, temperature play, breath and intensity. (20:28)Does kink always have to be sexual? (26:22)Penis sounding: Vee performs her first urethral sound! What is it, how do you do it, and what does it feel like? (33:10)All the dirty details: Sensation play on the hitachi wand chair, blocking out voyeurs to get out of your head to orgasm. (44:15)Cumming on top vs cumming on bottom. (49:54)Sex club etiquette: is it ok to cum on chests at a public play party? (53:39)Sex and technology: Apple vision pro’s capabilities for personal porn, and its limitations. (57:52)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
062: Sugar Daddy Fantasies, Orgasm Control, Foot Worship and Sex Dungeon Experiences
14-03-2024
062: Sugar Daddy Fantasies, Orgasm Control, Foot Worship and Sex Dungeon Experiences
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two sexy friends to play WHOREible Life the game! Leia (@vibrantbyleia) from Episode 41: Transformational Experiences in ENM and Episode 42: Sexual Somatic Healing and Sasha Silver (@Sashasilverxo) from Episode 54: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix.With Leia, the way we played the game was by answering “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank you” and with Sasha, we had to guess if the person who drew the card had done it or not.Plan B use in college and IUDs. (2:28)Have you ever had a sugar daddy or sugar mommy and seeking.com discussed.  (07:29)Orgasm control, edging, cumming on demand.  (12:50)Impact play with a crop.  (20:37)Dominatrix Masterclass details shared. (22:13)Been choked during sex, passing out, fingerprint marks, where pressure is applied and hand placement on the neck/chest. (28:06)Using WHOREibe Life the game for tips on chaturbate. (36:05)Massage with a happy ending and surprise rub and tug experience. (37:13)Received foot worship and toe sucking and double dom experience shared. (43:23)Sex dungeon experiences shared. (49:34)Not being a voyeur creep in the sex cub and double standard of women watching others. (55:32)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
061: New High-End Sex Party Noetic: Fantasies, Strap-ons, Consent Double Standards and Hot Girl Privilege
07-03-2024
061: New High-End Sex Party Noetic: Fantasies, Strap-ons, Consent Double Standards and Hot Girl Privilege
Listen in as Elle and Vee chat with Amy and Byron about Noetic, an exclusive elite VIP sex  party which  hosts  unique, kinky, themed events in NYC, Miami, and Dubai. They cover everything from strap-ons to consent double standards and hot girls privilege.What does Noetic mean? (0:44)What is the orientation of the attendees of these events?  (4:04)How does allowing women to have complimentary membership impact the dynamic and ambiance of the parties? (5:46)What can one expect at Noetic event?  (13:01)What types of performances are there at Noetic? (21:32)What is the importance of having a space to explore sexual desires? (24:02)Fantasies: worship fantasy, massage fantasy, heteroflexible gang bang, pregnancy fantasy. (26:54) What are the membership requirements and process? (33:17)Consent: the double standard between men and women, and the different weight it holds in ENM vs monogamous dating. (37:51)The difference between membership types: Basic, VIP and Prestige VIP. (44:21)How does Noetic enforce and protect anonymity and discretion of its elite members? (46:27)What is required of guests to attend an event or try Noetic before committing to a membership?  (50:32)How do Burning Man and ENM overlap? (57:57)Using ENM and communication to grow.  (59:14)Learn more about Noetic Here.Follow Noetic's Instagram.Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
060: NSFW Sex Club Founder Daniel Saynt on Creating a Sex Positive Community, Bi Male Acceptance, and Cannabis and Herbal Sexual Enhancements
29-02-2024
060: NSFW Sex Club Founder Daniel Saynt on Creating a Sex Positive Community, Bi Male Acceptance, and Cannabis and Herbal Sexual Enhancements
In this episode Vee and Elle had special guest Daniel Saynt on the show: founder and Chief Conspirator of NSFW, AKA New Society for Wellness,  which is an NYC-based sex club and community. They get into what makes NSFW different from other sex spaces, how they host workshops around sex education and communication, how they create safe space for all genders and sexual orientations, including bisexual and gay men, to feel welcomed and safe to explore their sexy sides… and way more! Bisexuality: Daniel shares his journey as a bi male, and the difference between bi men and women. (2:37)Daniel shares what lead to the creation of NSFW,  a sex positive community that is inclusive for all, especially bisexual and gay men with a focus on sex positivity education.(7:43)Consent differences in straight sexual spaces with women and how it’s different in all male spaces where you give up consent as you walk in. (9:56)Rejection: Daniel shares tips on using your no’s, how to set your own boundaries, and how to deliver and receive rejection. (13:40)The vibes when you arrive at NSFW.  (17:32)What makes an inviting sexual play space for a sex club and the evolution of NSFW spaces and events. (19:57)Daniel descibes the new East Village location that is set to open March/April 2024. (24:24)Does Daniel get to enjoy himself when he is at the club?  (28:30)Why does NSFW have an all black dress code?  (31:44)Cannabis: Daniel discusses cannabis strains he has created that are paired with various medicinal herbs to enhance sexual experience. (34:06)Why the new East Village location will not serve alcohol; rather, it will have elixirs, tinctures and potions. (38:33)Vee dives into the sexual awakening that occurs when around likeminded people with various levels of experiences and we dive into some Daniel fantasies, dom/sub, producing fantasies for other people  (41:58)The flow of the night at an NSFW party. (46:23) NSFW memberships. (48:52)NSFW’s own LOVER cryptocurrency, why it’s beneficial for them to use crypto for their sex community and simplifying purchasing and its use. (52:11)NSFW legal and funding questions answered. (56:09)Why did the Brooklyn location close?  (58:04)What’s happening with NSFW?  (1:02:00)______________Learn more about NSFW and apply herePurchase NSFW’s Eden Direct CannabisFind Daniel @DanielSaynt on all social platformsContact danielsaynt@gmail.comWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
059: Sensual Shibari Practitioner Jaqueline Michelle on Embodiment after Disassociation, Healing Trauma, Solo Kink and Conscious Sex Work
21-02-2024
059: Sensual Shibari Practitioner Jaqueline Michelle on Embodiment after Disassociation, Healing Trauma, Solo Kink and Conscious Sex Work
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with sensuality mentor and sensual shibari practitioner Jaqueline Michelle about ways to heal trauma and connect with yourself.  They touch on everything from solo kink to conscious sex work and strip clubs, the stigma around stripping and finding what makes you feel sexy, relearning to tune into your body when you disassociate to healing trauma through movement and self love practices, and surrendering to your inner domme or sub.Jaqueline Michelle's healing journey: from disassociation and being inorgasmic, to discovering tantra, meditation and yoga, to sensuality embodiment mentor. (2:52)Body awareness and healing. (8:53)What is sensuality? (11:49)Masculine vs feminine, embodiment tools and processing emotions, and shadow alchemy. (20:35)Ways to move trauma through the body and out through sensual movement, writing, rope bondage, sensory play, and self pleasure practices. (25:19)What does intuitive sensual movement or ecstatic dance do for someone? How does it benefit a practitioner?  How can you be in your body and feel into your feelings? (27:18)Finding your own version of sexy, and bringing tantric work into the strip club. (32:26)Conscious stripping and femme-powered strip club Rosewood Theater in NYC. (37:35)Overcoming the stigmas around being a stripper. (42:03)Solo kink and channeling your inner domme and inner sub; self bondage and self pleasure practices. (43:28)Overcoming disassociating: What advice do you have for women who struggle with sensual embodiment? Feeling your feelings deeply and sitting with discomfort to heal trauma. (47:05)How can solo embodiment practices support your non monogamy journey? (51:12)Sex and energy transfer: protecting yourself from absorbing your partners' energy. (55:37)LINKS:Work with Jaqueline MichelleInstagram: @jaquemichWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
058: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play
15-02-2024
058: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back guest Jess from Episode 37: Edging, to play the game WHOREible Life together! This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you. 1 Done it —with story sharing2 Fantasy —-with desire share3 No thank you --and why notAss swallowing butt plug experience. (1:00) Toy Review: Amovibe Pro+G Spot Flapping Vibrator with Kissing Function & Vibrating Tongue. (6:15) NEW with GGD:  New Episode series launch: Why WHOREible Life? (12:55) First WL card: “Take a sip for every person you have peed on.” Thoughts are shared around the psychology of what brings on the kink of pee play. (15:19)Second WL Card: “Been Fisted” and overcoming the idea of, “yeah right, a hand won’t fit in there”  (24:34) How to stay focused on your current partner(s) without getting distracted in a group play situation. (28:42)No pressure to perform leading to organic sexual play. (33:53)How Jess and Ace evolved into separate play. (36:12)Vee shares her first fisting experience. (37:15)Looser pussy with DVP and solving the triple penetration logistical problem. (42:50) EXCITING NEW UPDATES WITH GGD: A website, merch shop, & Slutstakes. (45:54) Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!