Learn more about my Inspired Love 8 Week Process, beginning October 15th here.   In this episode we explore the attributes that define a woman who is deeply attuned to her personal growth, emotional intelligence, and authentic self-expression. Drawing from universal spiritual principles and  practical experience, we outline the key characteristics that enable a woman to cultivate meaningful connections and embody true love. From self-awareness and vulnerability to emotional resilience and compassion, we discuss how these traits not only enhance her relationship with others but also deepen her relationship with herself. Whether you’re single and seeking love or in a committed relationship, this episode serves as an empowering guide for women who want to elevate their consciousness and foster deeper, more fulfilling partnerships and men who are seeking a conscious partner.

Click here to register for The Conscious Love Challenge beginning on October 2nd   Click here to join my 8-Week Inspired Love Intensive beginning October 15th    Let's dive deep into the essential qualities that define a conscious man. In this episode, we explore the attributes that empower men to build authentic connections, embrace vulnerability, and foster healthy relationships.  We're clearly defining the qualities that not only enhance personal growth but also contribute to more fulfilling partnerships. Whether you’re a man looking to bring forth your highest self or a woman seeking a conscious partner, this episode is packed with insights to inspire deeper connection and growth. Join in on this riveting discussion about what it means to truly embody conscious masculinity!

Click here to learn more about the 8-Week Inspired Love Program starting on October 15th.   In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional wounds that shape our need to be chosen in relationships. Whether it’s from childhood abandonment, rejection, or feeling unworthy, many of us carry unresolved pain that drives us to seek validation through being selected by a partner. This unconscious desire to be chosen often leads to unhealthy dynamics, where we sacrifice our needs or stay in unfulfilling relationships out of fear of rejection or being alone. We’ll explore how these early wounds, often tied to mother or father wounds, create a cycle of approval-seeking behavior. Instead of choosing relationships based on mutual respect, growth, and shared values, we end up prioritizing external validation. This need to be chosen reinforces the idea that love is something earned, rather than something we consciously choose and co-create. Through healing these core wounds and embracing self-worth, we can begin to reclaim our power in relationships. We’ll discuss how developing self-awareness and practicing self-love allows us to let go of the need for external approval and make intentional, conscious choices in love. By choosing from a place of wholeness and authenticity, we can attract healthier, more balanced relationships that nurture personal growth and connection.

Click here to learn more about my Inspired Love 8 Week Program beginning on October 15th   Most women say they want to experience a strong masculine presence from their man and most men say they want to experience the warm, gentle feminine presence from their woman, yet we struggle so much to receive this from each other.  In dating, many women feel that it's almost impossible to have men step up and bring the strength and security they seek from the masculine while men feel that women are too protective and guarded, limiting the warmth of the feminine. In our long term relationships this dynamic becomes even worse.  We get caught up in the doingness of life, the sexual polarity between us dies and resentment builds as we feel our deepest relational needs are not being met.  However, by simply understanding the core needs of the masculine and feminine and knowing how to meet them, we can inspired this presence from our partners and the people we date. Men become more masculine when their core masculine needs are being met and the same is true for women.  It's simply when this part of ourselves is not protected and validated that we lose touch with it and as we learn to do that for others, we invite them to do the same for us.

Most of us want more from our lives and relationships.  We want to experience more magic, passion, and vitality.   And while we are craving for more, we are often living in a state of mind and body that feels jaded, heavy, disconnected and alone. The pain that we've experienced in the past paints a bleak picture of the future and while, on some level, we hope to have a life that reflects our dreams one day, filled with passionate love and deep connection, that vision often feels far away and we struggle to believe in it. Yet miracles are possible and everything can change in an instant but first, we must create the space in our lives to allow them in.  This episode tells you exactly how to do that.  Enjoy :)

This episode invites you to explore the profound difference between love that is authentically expressed and the fear-based behaviors that often masquerade as love in relationships. We dive deep into what genuine love looks like—how it nurtures, heals, and strengthens the bonds between partners. Conversely, we examine the manipulative tactics and survival strategies that arise from fear and insecurity, leading to power struggles and disconnection. This episode is a journey toward understanding how to cultivate relationships based on true connection, trust, and mutual respect, moving beyond the patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of emotional turmoil. Tune in to discover how to transform your relationships by embracing the true nature of love. And thanks for listening.

Click here to join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge Click here to apply for Private Coaching with Shane   If you've experienced patterns of unfulfilling love in your life, this episode will offer you some important insight.  When we are looking for love, we are often tuning into subtle cues that reflect our past pain.  Believe it or not, this is often what generates our attraction to people. Sometimes, we are not seeking fulfilling love but rather we are seeking someone with whom we can play out these past patterns, someone who will create in us the familiar feelings of loss or longing that we've known throughout our lives.  Unconsciously, we associate these feelings with love and when we meet someone who doesn't create these feelings in us, the resulting experience is a lack of attraction or interest. In this episode, I'm explaining the subconscious dynamics of how this operates and sharing practical steps you can take to heal this. Thanks for listening, lots of love, Shane

Click here to join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge for FREE!    If you've been feeling like there aren't a lot of commitment-ready men out there, I hear you. Men crave connection and they want commitment just as much as women do but they have a very different process of getting there.  While women have often been encouraged to seek relationship and commitment from a very young age, men have often been encouraged to do the exact opposite and when they've expressed their sensitivity and need for love it's often been regarded as weakness and met with ridicule. Still, the raw need for connection lives within every man and when a woman can create a safe space for him to express this vulnerable need, he will often fall in love and commit to her for life. In this episode, I'm sharing how to do that. I hope you enjoy it, and thanks for listening.

Understanding polarity is a profound conversation that gives us insight into attraction, sexuality, intimacy, and how relationships can develop in healthy ways and also toxic ways. The polarity of masculine and feminine energy is at the core of how we relate with each other, it drives our attractions, it informs our highest actions and also our lowest impulses.  I hope you enjoy this episode and that it helps you understand how to attract the ideal partnership you're seeking, deepen the intimacy in your existing relationship, and foster the highest good for all your relationships.

Click here to book your discovery call for Inspired Love   Feminine power is an uncomfortable thing in our world.  Women are afraid to use it because of the intense backlash they get when they do and men are afraid to experience it because it shines a light on their unconscious insecurities.  Yet, conscious love can only be experienced in a relationship where the feminine power is expressed and honored by both partners.  This means there is healing that needs to happen for both men and women.    This episode will reveal the journey to healing for all people and show women how to embody more of their feminine power and men to heal in the presence of it.

Click here to book your discovery call for Inspired Love   Connection is a fundamental human need and we are in a crisis of it!  Most of us struggle to feel deeply connected and most of our relationships are surface level and don't meet our deepest needs.  In dating, we struggle to bridge the gap and feel genuinely connected to the people we date and many of us in long term relationships feel completely disconnected from our partners.  We struggle to feel seen, heard, understood and truly known by the people we love most, by the people we need to be most connected to. This episode will give you clear guidance on how to bridge the gap and make deeper connections in the dating world and beyond.

Book Your Discovery Call for Inspired Love here.   What is a conscious relationship and what makes it different from any other relationship?   Today is Fatima and I's four year wedding anniversary, going on 8 years together, and we've learned a lot about this topic through our various adventures and challenges!  In this episode, I'm sharing our story of creating and sustaining the conscious love we have today.  The good, the bad and the ugly!  Whether you are single or in a relationship, your journey to conscious love starts right now!  There is never a time when you are not creating it and this episode is going to give you the clearest representation of that journey that I've ever recorded. I had a lot of fun putting this one together and I hope you can share some laughs and some feels as you hear the story. Much Love Shane

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love    Most of us don't realize how much power we actually have to move a relationship in the direction we want it to go!    When a relationship isn't meeting our needs, many of us are likely to play manipulative games, withhold love, fawn and pander, some of us even going so far as to lie, cheat, or end the relationship altogether simply because we don't know how to communicate in a way that will motivate our partner to step up for us.    Whether you're getting to know someone new or with your partner of many years, if you're not practicing clear, direct, and powerful communication with them, you're inviting resentment, disconnection, and a lack of intimacy to grow between you.    By using simple communication tools we can open up a new world of connection in the relationships that mean the most to us or the new relationships we're building and in this episode, I'm sharing how to approach these conversations in a way that leads to the results we all crave from our love lives.   This is a powerful conversation about creating true depth and intimacy with those we love or those we hope to love in the near future.  Enjoy :)

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love    Do you want the man you're dating to plan better dates and show more initiative to move the relationship forward?  Would you like men on dating apps to take action and ask you out or follow up more often?  Would you like to get approached more in the real world, make connections at the gym or at your favorite coffee shop?    If you're looking for a simple way to motivate men to take action with you, this episode has the answer.    Whether you’re wanting more urgency for people to get off the apps and meet in person, you want to get approached more ”in the wild” or you want the person you’re with to be more invested in planning and executing exciting things for you to do together, this episode is sharing all the secrets to what makes a man take action and have him be excited about doing so.

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love  What makes the difference between good sex and Great sex?  This episode is all about that.  I've found, in my many years doing relationship and intimacy work, that most people, both single and in long term relationships are missing out on so much in their sex lives.  Single people often feel disillusioned by their sexual experiences, feeling they are short lived and many times not even that good to begin with while married couples often experience a dwindling of their sex lives the longer they are together, ranging from non-existent, to boring and unfulfilling.  In this episode, I'm sharing the secrets to a deeply fulfilling sex life that fulfills your deepest fantasies and meets your most heartfelt emotional needs.  I hope you enjoy it and thanks for listening!

Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love    Every so often I like to include a magical story of transformation and conscious love on the show, this is one of those episodes.   In this week's episode, I interview Stephanie Menezes, a friend and graduate of The Inspired Love Program as she shares her journey to the conscious partnership she's created with her incredible man, Patrick.     Speaking into all of the ups and downs along the way, she highlights important lessons she learned, steps she took, and changes she made in her life to prepare for and attract the conscious love she's always wanted.  She shares about how the program influenced her journey and everything she needed to bring herself into alignment and have the love she now enjoys today.    I hope you enjoy her heartwarming story as much as I enjoyed the interview and if you're looking for some insight that you can apply in your own life, I think you'll find it here.

Book your free intro call for The Inspired Love Program here.   Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App   Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here.     So many of us feel stuck in a perpetual cycle of casual relationships, temporarily getting excited when something real seems to show up only to be let down when we realize it's yet another short term thing that wasn't built to last.  Others of us have gone so long without being excited about anything that we doubt the reality that we could ever find what we're looking for.   If you feel stuck, exhausted, defeated or hopeless and feel that the occasional casual fling is the most you can expect, this episode is for you. I'm breaking down the journey to long term love and showing you how to bridge the gap in ways you may not have considered, so you can get back you passion and inspiration and feel that you are truly on your way to the love you've always wanted.

Book your free intro call for The Inspired Love Program here.   Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App   Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here.  Use code SHANEK15 to save 15% on your order.      Trying to find out someone's true feelings for you can be one of the most frustrating and anxiety inducing experiences you'll ever go through.  And I know men can often be particularly mysterious in terms of sharing how they feel.    But it doesn't have to be so hard!    With just a little courage and creativity, you can actually get really clear answers to all of your questions in a very short amount of time and in this episode, I'm sharing exactly how to do that.   I'm walking you through the exact questions and conversations you need to have within the first few dates together that will give you clarity on where you stand, what real potential there is, and how to move forward.   If you're wondering, "Is it time to walk?"  This episode has the answer!   Enjoy!

Book your free intro call for The Inspired Love Program here.   Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App   Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here.  Use code SHANEK15 to save 15% on your order.      Love addiction is extremely common and pervasive.    While addictions like drugs or alcohol are often clearly seen as destructive and people are encouraged to quit or not engage in the first place, the same cannot be said for love addiction.  We are often encouraged to fuel our love addiction and societal pressure from friends and family can often exacerbate the issue.   Furthermore, because of how common it is and it's perceived normalcy, there's virtually no help in diagnosing it and very little support available for those who suffer from it.    Despite that, millions of us have such a destructive relationship with love and dating that it literally ruins our lives and at a minimum, it steals our peace and stresses us out while limiting the true connections we're able to make.   In this episode, Shane breaks down the phenomenon of love addiction in exquisite detail while showing you how to diagnose yourself and giving you practical steps to heal if you feel this is you.

Book your intro call for The Inspired Love Program here.   Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App   Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here.  Use code SHANEK15 to save 15% on your order.    In this captivating episode of the Conscious Love Show, Shane Kohler shines a spotlight on the six pervasive lies that have ensnared our understanding of love.   With warmth and insight, he navigates through the misconceptions that often lead us astray in our pursuit of meaningful connections. One by one, Shane tackles the common myths that sabotage our love lives, fearlessly dismantling these illusions, inviting listeners to challenge their deeply ingrained beliefs about love.   Through intimate conversations and empowering revelations, Shane offers a roadmap for liberation from these cultural shackles, empowering us to embrace love in its truest, most authentic form.