Thanks for being on the journey throughout ten different first-time stories. We will be back with season 2 very soon. Keep up to date on Instagram @nolongeravirgin See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens if you give a subpar performance your first time having sex? You lie. Kyle speaks about not being ready to have sex at the time the rest of his friends were, and how a few events in your past can shape your sexual activity. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when you're in love with someone and you want them to feel the same way? You have sex with them. Kyra speaks about the misconceptions she had about virginity and the power of sex, and because of that she's still dealing with the trauma that came from her first time having sex. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What do you do if you want to have sex but don't have a condom? You get creative. Jon talks about his own internal pressure to have sex, so he could feel like he belonged with the guys he was around. He was determined to lose his virginity and make sure everyone had a good time while doing so, even if it came with a cost. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when you feel like a geriatric virgin? You download Tinder of course. Elise takes us through her long wait to lose her virginity, and how at first it seemed like it was going to end terribly, but six years on, she's grateful for the way it panned out. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when you don't have much choice in your small regional town for sexual partners? You move to the big smoke and find yourself some options on the dating apps. Jason takes us through the story of his first time, however, it's not so linear and he pretty much has four first-time experiences, all wildly different from each other. Jason will leave you wanting to learn more about sexuality, representation, and how to be a better human. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There are many factors that can influence our decision to have sex for the first time, attraction, peer pressure, overwhelming horniness, or even a movie. Kylie takes us back to the 80s to talk about the surprising motivator behind her first time at a popular holiday destination. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If your first time having sex is with someone who is more experienced, do you let them take on the role of coach and become a good team player? Tim speaks about letting things fall into place, and how if you don't push experiences, they end up better. Not great, but better than they could have played out. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault. Susie is the human version of sunshine, but behind that sunny disposition, she holds a story that we always hope that no one has to experience. Not all first-time sexual experiences are consensual, but that doesn't have to define your relationship with sex. For more sex positivity form Susie, follow her on Instagram @sexwithsusie, or @businesscollectionmagazine. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What do you get when you combine a forward French exchange student and a horny 16-year-old boy? Will speaks about the awkwardness of first times and the awkwardness of timing. He will make you realise that every straight teenage boys fantasy coming true, isn't always a dream come true. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when you realise that the first time you had sex, wasn't actually the first time you had sex? The intelligent and curious Prue speaks about her experiences and complexities of the virginity narrative that we are fed when you are a part of the LGBTQI+ community. She breaks down not just one first time, but two of her first times having sex, the history of virginity, and she even gives a few tips to keep your own sex life alive. Book recommendation: Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel Orgasm Study: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0939-z See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We've all seen the movies and the way they portray the first time having sex, and it's nothing like what happens in real life. These are real stories of people having sex for the very first time. Submit your own story @nolongeravirgin on instagram. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.