There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the third question.   But where do you go for answers you can trust?   Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert).   A.I. is all the rage, and perhaps ChatGPT is the most popular version going. It’s sort of like Google. You can ask it questions and it will give you answers based on all the digital information that’s found online. It’s pretty amazing.   That got our host thinking: What does ChatGPT have to say about some of the most important and relevant questions we have about our pursuit of intimacy?   So, in this, the first of a five-part series, Roy puts questions to A.I. and compares its answers to C.I. (Conscious Intelligence) so that you can be fully informed and make the best decisions and choices for your love life.   This episode’s question is, “What makes a MAN most attractive to the opposite sex?”   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the second question.   But where do you go for answers you can trust?   Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert).   A.I. is all the rage, and perhaps ChatGPT is the most popular version going. It’s sort of like Google. You can ask it questions and it will give you answers based on all the digital information that’s found online. It’s pretty amazing.   That got our host thinking: What does ChatGPT have to say about some of the most important and relevant questions we have about our pursuit of intimacy?   So, in this, the first of a five-part series, Roy puts questions to A.I. and compares its answers to C.I. (Conscious Intelligence) so that you can be fully informed and make the best decisions and choices for your love life.   This episode’s question is, “What strategy should a 50-year-old (ish) person use to find a life partner?”   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, the most frequently asked question is addressed.   But where do you go for answers you can trust?   Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert).   A.I. is all the rage, and perhaps ChatGPT is the most popular version going. It’s sort of like Google. You can ask it questions and it will give you answers based on all the digital information that’s found online. It’s pretty amazing.   That got our host thinking: What does ChatGPT have to say about some of the most important and relevant questions we have about our pursuit of intimacy?   So, in this, the first of a five-part series, Roy puts questions to A.I. and compares its answers to C.I. (Conscious Intelligence) so that you can be fully informed and make the best decisions and choices for your love life.   This episode’s question is, “What qualities should a person look for in a life partner?”   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Dr. John Gottman, a famous couple’s therapist and relationship researcher, has identified four warning signs that a relationship is doomed. They are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. If any of those are occurring between two people, he’s found that the relationship won’t last.   And that makes sense, right? They are sort of obvious red flags.   But in this episode, Roy identifies five subtle issues, dynamics that are not as obvious, yet just as dangerous and destructive. Being aware of the not-so-obvious issues that can ruin a relationship equips and prepares you for a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship.   You will learn… …why relational warning signs should be treated like medical warning signs; …the antidotes to criticism, contempt, defensiveness & stonewalling; …the five subtle signs a relationship is headed for trouble; …and what to do about the subtle signs when/if they show up in your relationship; …and much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In the previous episode, Roy shared something that no one had ever told him (and something you’ve probably never been told either): That although masculine people crave freedom at their core, they will never get it from either Woman or World, and likewise, although feminine people crave love at their core, they too will never get it from either Man or World.   Because that is such an outrageous truth to hear, Roy thought it needed to be unpacked further. To do that, he shares a talk by the world’s leading expert on Masculine/Feminine dynamics, David Deida.   In this episode, David Deida addresses, “His Freedom, Her Love,” offering a powerful and inspiring perspective on our desire for freedom and love and how it plays out between two people in intimacy.   This is one of the deepest, most difficult-to-swallow things you’ll ever hear, so be ready for it.   To learn more about David Deida, see: www.deida.info   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

The host shares, quite candidly, that he's been struggling in his personal life. He talks about being in an angry, dark, whiney place and it hasn’t been pretty, to put it mildly.   He explains that as he's paid attention to how shitty he's felt and why, it’s become clear to him that he's been lied to. There is something no one’s ever told him about the reality of life and relationships, and it’s led to misery.   So, in this episode, Roy, the host, gets very personal, sharing all about his recent bout with anger and depression—because he believes that you’ll be able to relate.   He's pretty sure that what he's never been told, you’ve never been told either. Take the time to listen to this episode because what he's realized might produce a turning point in your life as it has in his.   You will learn… …what you most crave as a masculine or feminine being; …what no one ever told you about getting what you crave; …the reason behind the inherent tension between men and women; …the discovery that leads to the possibility of relational happiness; …and much, much more.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

This is part 2 of a 2-part series where Roy, the host, offers very practical, down-to-earth wisdom on how to let go of the past.   In the previous episode (#179), Roy discussed the first two steps to letting go. In this episode, he discusses the final 3 steps.   In this episode, you will learn… …the three most devasting results of not letting go; …the inner attitude that keeps the past alive and makes letting go nearly impossible; …the final three steps to letting go and how exactly to do it; …And much, much more.   Don’t miss this episode!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Most of us know how important it is to let go of our past and its pain. If we hold on to the past, we live with suspicion, projection, and worst of all, repetition (if we don’t learn from the past, we’re destined to repeat it).   Most of us want to release our baggage and experience the inner freedom it brings, but the problem is no one ever tells us how to do that!!!   Until now.   In this episode (and the next one), our host, Roy Biancalana, offers a clear and practical 5-step process on how to let go of the past—no matter how difficult or painful it’s been.   You will learn… …the three most devasting results of not letting go; …the inner attitude that keeps the past alive and makes letting go nearly impossible; …four signs that you have stuff you need to let go of; …the first two steps to letting go and why they are the hardest; …And much, much more.   Don’t miss this episode!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

If you are interested in changing the trajectory of your love life—and after listening to the previous episode, how could you not be!—you are probably considering working directly with Roy. But because it’s a big decision, you might be interested in hearing from someone who’s “been there, done that.”   Well, ask and you shall receive.   In this special episode, Roy interviews Lyla, a former client. They discuss her interest in coaching and why she chose Roy. They talk deeply about all the components and resources included in the coaching program, including her experience of the formal and laser coaching sessions, what she learned from Roy’s book, Relationship Bootcamp, his eCourse, The Radiant Woman, The Waking Up meditation app and her use and understanding of the Enneagram of Personality, a key part of the program.   Don’t miss this opportunity to hear a very heartfelt, authentic and unscripted conversation between Roy and Lyla. It will give you a window into what it’s like to work with Roy.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

This is probably the most important podcast Roy has ever recorded. Yes, on the surface it looks like he’s simply promoting his coaching practice, but in reality, something much, much deeper takes place.   Roy is offering the solution to your disappointing love life. In fact, three major themes are addressed: (1) You want a great relationship with all of your heart, and you know it’s possible; (2) Your relationship history, up until now, has been disappointing and painful; (3) You are more than a little concerned about how or if it will ever change.   If you resonate with those three, you CANNOT miss this episode because you will learn how to change the trajectory of your love life once and for all.   In this episode, you will be presented with 5 (maybe even 6) signs that you need to hire Roy as your relationship coach. These signs are not mysterious or difficult to identify. In fact, they are obvious, yet if they are not faced, your love life will never change.   Don’t miss this episode.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Perhaps you’ve heard the phrase, “You just can’t make this stuff up!” It speaks to how reality is often stranger than fiction. That is certainly true in our world today—have you been paying attention to politics in the U.S.?—but it’s often equally true of our personal lives.   How do we respond (or how can we respond) when life is not unfolding the way we’d prefer? How do we handle reality, when reality is stranger than fiction?   Well, in this episode, our host, Roy Biancalana, shares a talk given by his favorite spiritual teacher, Michael Singer. Get ready for a deep dive into the most challenging idea in all of spirituality: Learning to Prefer Reality.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show: Michael Singer's Website: www.tou.org Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the last episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares the overarching commitment of all miserable people—"Un-Accepted Reality”. If you can master the art of saying “no” to life, arguing with is, fighting with “God” and resisting reality, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.   You will learn: …why ignoring your “inner Einstein” creates misery; …how your narcissistic tendencies help ruin your life; …why fighting for what you want will require Prozac; …that the phrase “never surrender” should be your motto; …and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the sixth episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares the most powerful way to ruin your life which is to have an “Un-Finished Past”. If you can master the art of holding on to resentment, blame, anger and bitterness, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.   You will learn: …the benefit of keeping the past alive; …why baggage is sexy and attractive; …that holding on to the past and then projecting it will keep you single; …the benefit of blame and why time doesn’t heal old wounds; …and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the fifth episode of a 7-part series, Roy reminds us that a beautiful way to ruin your life is to have “Un-spoken Truth”. If you can master the art of playing games, withholding, manipulating, and controlling, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.   You will learn: …how to play the game and create distrust; …why withholding and manipulating are total turn-ons; …how to allow fear to control what you say and how you say it; …why the law of attraction will work against you; …and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the fourth episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares that perhaps the best way to turn people off and ruin any relationship in your life is have “Un-questioned Beliefs,” especially everyone’s favorite belief: I am right! If you can master the art of being right and making others wrong, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.   You will learn: …why “should” needs to be your favorite word; …the benefits of needing and wanting to be right; …why others will appreciate you for making them wrong; …if you think something is true, it most certainly is; …and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the third episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares another great way to ruin your life, which is have “Un-Kept Agreements”. If you can master the art of making agreements or promises and then not keep them consistently, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.   You will learn: …how to lose all your friends and ruin your career; …how to get people to negatively gossip about you; …how to destroy trust and keep yourself single; …why we sometimes say “yes” when we don’t mean it; …and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the second episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares another way to ruin your life, which is to have “Un-felt Feelings”. If you can master the art of avoiding, suppressing, medicating, and distracting yourself from your feelings, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.   You will learn… …the benefits of avoiding your feelings; …which avoidance strategy works best for you; …how avoiding your feelings will make you unattractive; …why unfelt feelings will make you a lousy lover; …and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants, or wants to be around, then this series is for you!   In this, the first episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares that perhaps the best way to ruin your life is to “Un-own Responsibility”. If you can master the art of blaming and complaining, refusing to take responsibility for the results in your life, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.   You will learn that… …blaming everyone else for your life situation; …being defensive in the face of feedback or criticism; …viewing life as something that happens “to me” rather than “by me”; …feeling powerless to create the life you want; …and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

While it certainly isn’t politically correct to speak of toxic femininity, it needs to be addressed because it’s a real thing. Yes, feminine people are rarely toxic physically, especially when compared to masculine people, but they can, and often are, emotionally, psychologically, and verbally toxic.   So, building off the previous episode, Roy points out four counterfeit and toxic versions of the divine feminine. They are: The Super Scared Woman, The Super Self-Sufficient Woman, The Super Special Woman and The Super Seductive Woman. Each is a dangerous distortion of the true, healthy expression of the divine feminine nature.   The message being communicated is that men should avoid the first 4 toxic “super” women, and women should strive to let go of any tendency to embody their toxic qualities.   Don’t miss this opportunity to learn about how The Radiant Woman shows up in the world and displays her loving, life-giving qualities.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

We are obsessed with superheroes. Whether it’s Batman, Spider-Man, The Hulk, Thor, Captain America, or Iron Man, it seems we’ve always been fascinated by the Masculine superhero archetype.   But if there is a quintessential icon of masculinity, it’s definitely Superman. For men, there’s something about ripping open our shirts at the first sign of trouble and revealing a big red “S” on our chests. Well, that’s not really a fantasy.   Our host, Roy Biancalana, says that if you rip open the shirt of ANY man, you will find a big red “S” on his chest.   It just depends on what that “S” stands for.   So, in this episode, Roy discusses 5 different kinds of “super” men. The first four are counterfeit or toxic versions of the divine masculine, with only the last one being the true expression.   These toxic expressions are: The Super Simple Man, The Super Sensitive Man, The Super Successful Man, The Super Sexual Man, and then finally, the true version which is called, The Superior man.   The message being communicated is that women should avoid the first 4 toxic “super” men, and men should strive to let go of any tendency to embody their toxic qualities.   Don’t miss this episode.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.