Conversations about sexual and gender diversity often become emotionally heated. Christians especially struggle with the apparent tensions between the call to holiness and the call to hospitality, and the emotions of disgust and empathy seem to pull us in opposing directions. In these two episodes, I explore the emotional psychology around disgust and empathy, which are strongly involved in our conversations about sexuality and gender. These emotions serve important functions, but how do we navigate them in ways that enable constructive dialogue and sustainable communities in the face of diversity? Can Jesus serve as a model for how to bring both holiness and hospitality together?