In this episode, Scott & Tom talk about the unique challenges a Pastor's spouse face. As you think about how to honor your Pastor this Pastor Appreciation Month, consider how you can support your Pastor's spouse.
The Session: Helping the Pastor’s Spouse
Lord of peace, may You give our pastor(s) and their families peace at all times and in every way (2 Thess. 3:16).
Support your spouse without being the assistant pastor.
1. Be a loving, supportive spouse
2. Do not neglect the training of your children.
3. Take care of your home.
The Unique Challenges
· Living under constant scrutiny
· Unrealistic expectations
· Perfect social behavior
· Thorough knowledge of the Bible
· Attendance at all meetings
· Ready entertainer
· Spiritual giant
The Unique Circumstances
· Limited finances
· The demands of church members
· Loneliness
· Absent Spouse
How to Succeed As a Pastor’s Spouse
· Love and accept yourself.
· Concentrate on being the best you can be.
· Have realistic expectations of yourself.
· Build your own spiritual life.
· Work on self-improvement.
· Love and accept your spouse.
· Try to understand your spouse’s ministry.
· Decide on what you are comfortable doing in your church.